no Archives - Vat 'n blaaskans / Take a break https://www.surene.co.za/tag/no/ saam met Surene / with Surene Thu, 11 Feb 2021 20:05:24 +0000 en-ZA hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.3 The power within https://www.surene.co.za/the-power-within/ Thu, 04 Feb 2021 19:33:00 +0000 https://www.surene.co.za/?p=1751 When a person puts you in a position where they want to manipulate you, get out as fast as you can. Manipulators never ever change in their entire life. No matter what they are trying to make you believe about them. They also do not understand that NO is a full sentence and actually has a meaning. Manipulators do not Read More

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When a person puts you in a position where they want to manipulate you, get out as fast as you can.

Manipulators never ever change in their entire life.

No matter what they are trying to make you believe about them.

They also do not understand that NO is a full sentence and actually has a meaning.

Manipulators do not respect boundaries. No matter how many times you say NO, they still come back and try to con you into believing what ever they tell you, making you feel as if you are in the wrong for not wanting them around.

How do you recognise a manipulator? They disguise themselves in various ways – they can either make you feel so important that you can believe they have changed. Or they can devaluate you in such a way that you feel worthless. What ever they do or say, you can be sure that they are trying to manipulate you.

Set your boundaries and stick to it. Do not allow them into your space. Teach them that NO is a full sentence. With a valid meaning!

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